
Mrs.
Marie Tye
A Teacher For The Times
by Jeff Riley
Mrs. Marie Tye, my 8th & 9th grade English
teacher was my favorite overall. She possessed a number of qualities that made
me feel that I was important. Not another student of the many she taught in her
lifetime, but a student that she had confidence in and one worth teaching.
This
was during a time in our country when teachers could actually mention God and
the Bible in the classroom and not fear retribution. Morning prayers and the pledge
of allegiance over the school intercom were daily rituals at school and no one
was offended. This was all normal and no one believed their religious expressions
were infringed on.
I
was not brought up in an overtly Christian home so I had little understanding
of biblical stories, books of the bible or things spiritual. I went to church
off and on with friends that invited me but I didn't have any knowledge of what
it was all about. There was a picture of the Last Supper prominently displayed
on the wall next to our kitchen table but that was the depth of what I knew.
Mrs.
Tye was always dressed nicely and appropriately when she entered the classroom.
She was no one's fool as she had several children herself so trying to pull one
on her was fruitless. Her facial expressions said it all. When she was perturbed
at classroom commotion, she didn't yell or threaten anyone with a trip to Mr.
Havens, the school principal, where getting licks were unavoidable. She didn't
wave a board the size of Mt. Rushmore around as a warning. She simply would look
at us and arch her left eye brow and silence would ensue. We knew! Mrs. Tye taught
me that a lot can be said without saying it.
Mrs.
Tye liked to test our knowledge on a number of subjects by having open quizzes.
"Jeff, where can we find the Book of Deuteronomy?" she asked me. I was usually
very good at these things, but I was stumped on this one. However, I took a stab
at it and said, "In the library???" to which a portion of the class laughed. Mrs.
Tye smiled at me and said" can anyone tell me where we can find the Book of Deuteronomy?"
to which another female classmate correctly answered," It is a book in the Old
Testament in the Bible." Mrs. Tye planted a seed in me that day about spiritual
things broadening my horizons.
She
also liked to conduct impromptu class spelling bees. I was an excellent speller
and during elementary school I usually won most class spelling bees. On two occasions
that I recall, only one of my classmates, Pat A. Phillips, could beat me when
we had inter-class spelling bees. I was a visual speller, I could see the word
in my mind, so I wasn't prone to the rules such as I before e except after c.
Although I relied heavily at times on my understanding of vowels, consonants,
and syllables to get through, my visual ability was my salvation. If I had seen
it, I could spell it.
One
day the Book of Deuteronomy came back to haunt me in Mrs., Tye's in class spelling
bee. "Jeff" as she looked at me with a smile and look of reassurance, "can you
spell Deuteronomy?" Little did I know this would come back to me so soon. Trying
to look as though I did my research by tracking down a Bible, I gave it a try
by spelling it phonetically. "Du-Ta-Ra-On-Me Dutaraonme" it sounded and looked
reasonable to me since we were talking about old things in the Bible. I was waiting
for her to give me the eye brow arch of dissatisfaction, but true to her nature,
she sweetly smiled, chuckled a bit at my attempt and asked the class if anyone
could spell it. Again a female classmate got it correct. Must have been Pat A.
Phillips! Mrs. Tye had taught me to not quit, keep trying, dig deeper to find
the answers.
Mrs.
Tye was the first teacher that I remember that had us memorize poetry. By this
time in my education I had acquired a good memory of things and could use my visualization
to learn. She usually gave us a week to memorize it and then each classmate would
have to stand up and recite. One of the first poems I remember memorizing was
Rudyard Kipling's If:
| If
you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and blaming it
on you, ... If
you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, but make allowance for their
doubting too; ... If
you can wait and not be tired by waiting, or being lied about, don't deal
in lies, or being hated, don't give way to hating, and yet don't look too
good, nor talk too wise. If
you can dream - and not make dreams your master; If
you can think - and not make thoughts your aim; If
you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the
same; If
you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap
for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build
'em up with worn-out tools: If
you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your
loss; If
you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they
are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says
to them: 'Hold on!' If
you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, ' Or walk with Kings - nor lose
the common touch, if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If
all men count with you, but none too much; If
you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours
is the Earth and everything that's in it, And - which is more - you'll be a Man,
my son! |
I
memorized this by the end of the class in which she gave it. Mrs. Tye allowed
me to stand up and recite it although I had a week to do so. I did so flawlessly
to which she gave me the I knew you could do it smile. I didn't win a trophy,
plaque, or certificate for my efforts. Mrs., Tye aptly rewarded me with not only
a poem with which I have leaned on through the years to remind me of where I come
from and have been through, but a reward of satisfaction and confidence.
Mrs.
Tye was the only teacher besides 2 others that were neighbors that came to our
home to visit after my dad died suddenly of a heart attack on December 29th 1966.
She showed me her humanness, compassion and concern that night as she reassured
my mother now widowed with 5 school aged children that all would be well in time.
Her devotion to her family, faith, friends, and a student named Jeff Riley, made
her a Teacher for The Times.
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